Where do you think Daeron I got his martial spirit and supreme self-confidence? Was he just a born military prodigy or do you think he had a specific tutor/master-of-arms who shaped him into a fourteen-year-old boy conqueror? His father Aegon III seems like he would have been too reserved/depressed/brooding to be a confident warrior (though Daena was said to idolize her father). Perhaps from Oakenfist or Uncle Viserys, even though they were more cautious about trying to conquer Dorne?

We don’t have much information about Daeron’s youth, so it’s hard to say. But the Oakenfist seems to have best fit the bill as a mentor figure – he was a good thirty years older than Daeron, already a storied (and daring) naval commander, and was heavily involved in Daeron’s planning for his Conquest of Dorne. 

But given his extreme youth at the time of his great victories, I think we have to assume that he was a prodigy, because an average student even of a great teacher wouldn’t have been able to do what he did in the time he had.