1. Yes. We see Cersei using reverse psychology to get Robert to sign up for the melee ahead of time.
2. Why would Cersei spend any time talking or thinking about a failed assassination attempt after the successful attempt went off?
3. The two assassination attempts bear a marked resemblance – they both use Lannister loyalists, they’re both “accidents,” and they’re both really shoddily relying on random chance to actually kill Robert.