Ultimately, I think it would come down to how much punishment Dorne was willing to take, and what outcomes each side was willing to settle for.
On the first hand, I think we under-estimate how much damage was endured, even by successful guerrilla campaigns – remember the whole thing about the 50,000 spears of Dorne being actually 25,000? I think the Dornish lost a lot of manpower, sufficient to actually cause long-term gender imbalances and lower birth rates. After all, given Daeron’s military prowess, I doubt the 50,000 Westerosi lost in Dorne were the more numerous, and Dorne suffered civilian losses on top of that. So…how much punishment were the Dornish willing to take? A lot, clearly, but not an infinite amount, given their willingness to seek peace later.
Regarding the peace outcomes, I wonder what would have happened had Daeron I offered something like Daeron II’s deal. And Dareon I was still unmarried…