No problem. It’s a fascinating topic – one of the things that really does make the pre-WWI period different from the political systems that follow is the way in which monarchy and aristocracy commingle the personal and the political, private and public.
If anything, Martin downplays it a bit by having the Great Houses rarely marry each other. In our medieval era, all of these warring kings and dukes and earls and barons and counts are relatives, which adds this interesting personal dynamic to political intrigue and warfare.